..Confused..

nazuk_jaana · 10th June 2008, 03:06 AM

ok so he says he likes me, and i told him i like him too

but we're not together.y? because im stil thinking, and he says he'll wait.

but y would he wait so long for me, he doesn't even know me that well, we've

been talkin {online\phone} for about 9 months

i've met him only two times...i know i like him, bt for some reason i cant say yes to him

i want to b in a relationship with love in it, and he just wants to b in a relationship

where we both like each other only {friends with benefits an easier way to put it} he says he doesnt believe in the "L" word.

he believes in love buh he says its not for him

i think im falling for him..

wt should i do so i dont get my heart broken??

**Maksa** · 11th June 2008, 09:13 AM

Nakuz First Thing. When you think about love be ready to accept the pain you get with it. But There is also good thing about Love It can make life so beautiful. So everyone will not face negative side of it. But If you fall in love with wrong guy/girl it can spoil your life. Because we do not know your guy so you only have to decide he is the right choice for you or not.

Second Thing, Don't believe What your heart says! Always believe and trust what your mind says. So don't do anything in hurry take your time then you can decide if you want to go with him or not. If he likes you he will sure wait for you

And it's always hard to trust people from internet. As you said you met him twice only. so before you take any decision try to know more about him and his past. Because these days it's hard to find good guys most of them will take you on ride and will take advantage.

As you said you falling for him. Yes it;s natural if you go close with anyone for long time you will feel the same one day.

I am not love guru lolz. but i just shared few things from my personal experience. Feel free to share with us. We are here to give you good suggestions.

Take Care

nazuk_jaana · 11th June 2008, 09:51 AM

thnksh sho mush!!

i dont kno if he's right for me or not, most of my friends think hes not right for me

i guess u are right about listening to ur mind more than listening to ur heart...

how do i get him to talk about his past?? he changes the subject wenever we talk about
the past?

and thanku very much for listening!

**Maksa** · 11th June 2008, 09:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nazuk_jaana

thnksh sho mush!!

i dont kno if he's right for me or not, most of my friends think hes not right for me

i guess u are right about listening to ur mind more than listening to ur heart...

how do i get him to talk about his past?? he changes the subject wenever we talk about
the past?

and thanku very much for listening!

See what i feel now is. listen to your friends!. Because friends always want good for you.

when you ask about past If he change topic that means there is something fishy. i personally advice you not to fall for anyone from internet. Find some one real whom you can see, and meet when you want that way you know more about him.

nazuk_jaana · 11th June 2008, 10:02 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Maksa

See what i feel now is. listen to your friends!. Because friends always want good for you.

when you ask about past If he change topic that means there is something fishy. i personally advice you not to fall for anyone from internet. Find some one real whom you can see, and meet when you want that way you know more about him.

yeah ur right(again-lol)

but how then i dont want to sound mean

and quit talkin to him, because hes been heartbroken soo many times

and i really dont want to break his heart...

**Maksa** · 11th June 2008, 10:07 AM

then take him wid you

lolz he will be happy. but be ready for all pains. It will be risk... if you really think he is nice then don't think much lolz

sometimes we have to be mean.... just explain him. or just ask him frankly why he hide his past?

nazuk_jaana · 11th June 2008, 10:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Maksa

then take him wid you

lolz he will be happy. but be ready for all pains. It will be risk... if you really think he is nice then don't think much lolz

sometimes we have to be mean.... just explain him. or just ask him frankly why he hide his past?

do u think i should talk to him soon?or wait a while?

by the way thnku sho mush!

hUGgZNkiSheZz

**Maksa** · 11th June 2008, 10:20 AM

wait a while dear. and try to ask him about his past. or if you want to listen to your friends. don't talk daily.... slowly you can explain him that he is not the one.

nazuk_jaana · 11th June 2008, 11:08 AM

yea i guess ima do that...

n e waish thnksh thnksh

**drunk_tiger** · 13th June 2008, 03:22 PM

hmmm nazuk dear .. i wud surely hlp u but our dear maksa had told u everything abt that . he didnt left any words for me to tel . lolzz .
hahahahaha
anyways i just wanna tell u that know abt that guy before u love him ..
think twice before u take a step dear .
no matter wat time it takes but the fact is that u shud get the gud support and help frm that guy for ur life time .
if u think he is not the guy then u surely can leave him .
one more adice :- dunt trust the ppl frm internet so easily ... coz its hard to believe the p[erson whom we dunt know .
so dear its all on u .. decide wat u think is best .
we just can give u the suggestion .
i mena thew suggestion is ours but the decision is urs .
hav great day dear .
buh bye .

10th June 2008, 03:06 AM	#1 (permalink)
nazuk_jaana Friendly Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: California Posts: 38	..Confused.. ok so he says he likes me, and i told him i like him too but we're not together.y? because im stil thinking, and he says he'll wait. but y would he wait so long for me, he doesn't even know me that well, we've been talkin {online\phone} for about 9 months i've met him only two times...i know i like him, bt for some reason i cant say yes to him i want to b in a relationship with love in it, and he just wants to b in a relationship where we both like each other only {friends with benefits an easier way to put it} he says he doesnt believe in the "L" word. he believes in love buh he says its not for him i think im falling for him.. wt should i do so i dont get my heart broken?? __________________ ~When tears flow in your eyes... Always remember two things: I'm here and I care~

11th June 2008, 09:13 AM	#2 (permalink)
Maksa Friendly Administrator Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Rajkot (INDIA) Posts: 4,321	Re: ..Confused.. Nakuz First Thing. When you think about love be ready to accept the pain you get with it. But There is also good thing about Love It can make life so beautiful. So everyone will not face negative side of it. But If you fall in love with wrong guy/girl it can spoil your life. Because we do not know your guy so you only have to decide he is the right choice for you or not. Second Thing, Don't believe What your heart says! Always believe and trust what your mind says. So don't do anything in hurry take your time then you can decide if you want to go with him or not. If he likes you he will sure wait for you And it's always hard to trust people from internet. As you said you met him twice only. so before you take any decision try to know more about him and his past. Because these days it's hard to find good guys most of them will take you on ride and will take advantage. As you said you falling for him. Yes it;s natural if you go close with anyone for long time you will feel the same one day. I am not love guru lolz. but i just shared few things from my personal experience. Feel free to share with us. We are here to give you good suggestions. Take Care __________________

11th June 2008, 09:51 AM	#3 (permalink)
nazuk_jaana Friendly Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: California Posts: 38	Re: ..Confused.. thnksh sho mush!! i dont kno if he's right for me or not, most of my friends think hes not right for me i guess u are right about listening to ur mind more than listening to ur heart... how do i get him to talk about his past?? he changes the subject wenever we talk about the past? and thanku very much for listening! __________________ ~When tears flow in your eyes... Always remember two things: I'm here and I care~

11th June 2008, 10:07 AM	#6 (permalink)
Maksa Friendly Administrator Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Rajkot (INDIA) Posts: 4,321	Re: ..Confused.. then take him wid you lolz he will be happy. but be ready for all pains. It will be risk... if you really think he is nice then don't think much lolz sometimes we have to be mean.... just explain him. or just ask him frankly why he hide his past? __________________

11th June 2008, 10:20 AM	#8 (permalink)
Maksa Friendly Administrator Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Rajkot (INDIA) Posts: 4,321	Re: ..Confused.. wait a while dear. and try to ask him about his past. or if you want to listen to your friends. don't talk daily.... slowly you can explain him that he is not the one. __________________

11th June 2008, 11:08 AM	#9 (permalink)
nazuk_jaana Friendly Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: California Posts: 38	Re: ..Confused.. yea i guess ima do that... n e waish thnksh thnksh __________________ ~When tears flow in your eyes... Always remember two things: I'm here and I care~

13th June 2008, 03:22 PM	#10 (permalink)
drunk_tiger WickEd SuNNy Join Date: May 2007 Location: nepal Posts: 2,352	Re: ..Confused.. hmmm nazuk dear .. i wud surely hlp u but our dear maksa had told u everything abt that . he didnt left any words for me to tel . lolzz . hahahahaha anyways i just wanna tell u that know abt that guy before u love him .. think twice before u take a step dear . no matter wat time it takes but the fact is that u shud get the gud support and help frm that guy for ur life time . if u think he is not the guy then u surely can leave him . one more adice :- dunt trust the ppl frm internet so easily ... coz its hard to believe the p[erson whom we dunt know . so dear its all on u .. decide wat u think is best . we just can give u the suggestion . i mena thew suggestion is ours but the decision is urs . hav great day dear . buh bye . __________________

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